I find it admirable that
you really are open to
letting people into your life:
not putting up walls
even when you see red flags,
genuinely believing
“this one might not be like others”.
.
.
That’s what you said,
when I showed concern –
in December, over a keen
forty year old man,
with no prior serious relationship,
accountable as a try
or a responsibility.
.
.
Couldn’t help but question,
why is she not seeing
this as a problem?
A man, over enthusiastic to find
himself a lover for life and
not just another hoity-toity
his – “one-night” standard?
.
.
But that’s just me,
your Jaded Little Cynic –
and I can only hope that
you remain the same
old Dee; for, it takes
courage, naivety and
truly a heart of gold.
.
.
To believe the world isn’t all
rugged, cunning, motivated
purely by self-interest, and cold.
Every backlash at you
confirms my stand,
disillusionment of character!
.
.
Why can’t we snatch that
whisky from the hands of
that grinning old man?
And tell him his dead wife
is having a party 6 feet under,
so he can shimmy as much as
he wants with the young
ones – but, she’s way better?
.
.
But that’s just me,
your Jaded Little Cynic.
Leaving yourself open to love, friendship and new experiences means making yourself vulnerable. Knowing that the person you’re opening yourself up to can and probably will end up hurting you.
It takes courage and strength. I hope you’ll maintain your heart of gold whilst also keeping yourself safe. Because some people will shamelessly exploit you as soon as you’ll let your guard down. Take care. 💛
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