Exactly on this day a year ago my ex-J literally sat on his high-chair imposing his choice of not to pursue fatherhood – by telling me that it is either his way or highway if I want to be a mother. Yes. When we came together we had this conversation and I made it clear […]
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Mockingbird: The Love Diary
“First of all,” he said, “if you can learn a simple trick, Scout, you’ll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks. You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view […] until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.” (To Kill A Mocking […]
Voice
I knew from the first moment you called me unexpectedly, I would wake up every morning wanting to hear your voice. Again and again and again.
Day 41: The Shit-Show – Single Woman’s Diary
It was really lovely what V said last night: “get them to do a blood test on your 3rd date”! After I told her about how “helicobacter pylori” spreads! And Daniel: “wow you got lucky. You dodged a bullet!” Tinder dates. What can I say? What can I say. You think as a woman abiding […]
Day 30: Wise Witches of the Single Woman’s Diary
Yesterday I met a very wise young lady for lunch. As we sat on the riverbank under blazing sun, talking about life and how some of us are born with this feeling that we are here to teach how to feel while others are here to teach us how to self love: we bonded. Our […]
Day 7: Rare – The Single Woman’s Diary
I have to admit, I am slightly jealous of Daniel. He has found someone with the exact same humour as him. That is rare. We all stumble through life but only in rare occasions do we come across people with whom we share similar tastes, humour… their goals and visions can be different – ‘cause […]
Day 37: The Bike Analogy – The Breakup
Woke up remembering a valid lesson that my dad taught me, in-order-to be aware that the past is in the past. To do so, one must let all past emotions leave one’s mind and be ready to move on for a new experience, cause “you can’t ride a motorcycle while keeping your eye constantly on […]
Day 36: The Breakup
Every photographer knows that a cloudy grey day provides the best light. But did everyone experience waking up to a grey morning where the neighbour is playing her clavier and birds chirping to soft drizzle? I start taking my meds for the Helicobacter pylori bacteria that was found in my stomach. A grey day would […]
Day 35 – aliens can take me NOW! – The Breakup
Yesterday’s bicycle ride and today’s anal probing! Like all that I talk about when on a long bike ride is how our “vagingin” falls asleep after-a-while and I keep wondering how men do it? They have a pair of balls and balls are pretty sensitive – not like vaginas that can survive a pounding! The […]
Day 33: The Breakup
I have a small mouth. People usually have a wolf-trap ready to snap when at their dentist – but I’m one of those whose mouth doesn’t open up more than to shove a spoon-full of food in, only when needed. So while fixing my wisdom tooth my dentist – I noticed – has accidentally chipped […]
ANTHROPOLOGY OF LOVE 