If it was meant to be

Sometimes I wonder why so much energy is spent to cause misery after you decide to dump someone? Sometimes I wonder why after choosing to break one’s heart there’s still unresolved issues day after day, night after night? You pretend to be “in such a good place” and yet took up to social media to […]

Mockingbird: The Love Diary

“First of all,” he said, “if you can learn a simple trick, Scout, you’ll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks. You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view […] until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.” (To Kill A Mocking […]

Psycho Ex: The Love Diary

Psycho ex GF/BF? Who broke up with you? Block them, ignore them. When they have a problem and text you, call you cause they are incapable of dealing with their own shit – whether or not you make them your own problem is up to you. And this was the most precious advice I received […]

Day 62: Loss – The Single Woman’s Diary

Losing friends to hectic schedule is not easy. It isn’t easy either to actually see unequal efforts or undefined expectations, and then someone lashing out. Blame game is not a healthy friendship. Or even a relationship to be honest. I came across these lovely sketches that shows how friendships should truly be – perhaps that’s […]

Day 41: The Shit-Show – Single Woman’s Diary

It was really lovely what V said last night: “get them to do a blood test on your 3rd date”! After I told her about how “helicobacter pylori” spreads! And Daniel: “wow you got lucky. You dodged a bullet!” Tinder dates. What can I say? What can I say. You think as a woman abiding […]

Day 40: Burnt but maybe – The Single Woman’s Diary

I have become everything that I once feared. Closed, impenetrable, scared of feeling vulnerable and scared of showing emotions. I talked about Tinder generation and “hook-up culture”, not understanding why people are scared to feel, but then, – I ran away at the first sign of liking/feeling emotions for someone. Anxiety crisis. The anxiety crisis […]

Day 30: Wise Witches of the Single Woman’s Diary

Yesterday I met a very wise young lady for lunch. As we sat on the riverbank under blazing sun, talking about life and how some of us are born with this feeling that we are here to teach how to feel while others are here to teach us how to self love: we bonded. Our […]

Day 7: Rare – The Single Woman’s Diary

I have to admit, I am slightly jealous of Daniel. He has found someone with the exact same humour as him. That is rare. We all stumble through life but only in rare occasions do we come across people with whom we share similar tastes, humour… their goals and visions can be different – ‘cause […]

Day 6: head of a fish – The Single Woman’s Diary

I just realised that I am currently casually-dating four men. There’s always a first time, and it’s the first time ever in my life that I am kind-of poly dating. I used to be this person who’d be seriously focused on dating one singular person, and even when the relationship wouldn’t be defined as exclusive […]