Day 55: Love? Perfect Person? – The Single Woman’s Diary

Hmm. I’m just going to repeat something I told someone this morning:

I believe in love at first sight. It’s inherently human. You look at someone and your heart skips a beat – and you know you like that person. Of course you can’t have everyone or everything your heart skips a beat for, but talking and getting to know someone is only the Second step for me. If my heart didn’t feel it, no amount of talking will make me feel it later. And it isn’t some gibberish, rather scientific as it is actually caused by a chemical reaction. “Basically, it’s a good match of endorphins between two people and in essence, it is an indication of strong physical attraction”. For me the perfect man is the one with who I not only feel that heart-skipping, knee-weakening, flush on my cheeks endorphins rush – but also someone level-headed and strong: a person with whom I can establish a mutual understanding through emotions, trust, respect, and equal goals in life. Other things develop through years and one has to work towards it. What’s important too, I have learnt about myself is that, I don’t think I would be able to be with anyone who doesn’t show his feelings/emotions abundantly towards me through gestures and not just words – it would make me very unhappy. Cause I tend to shower people with attention, affection, and presence. It would be a pity if I have to keep double guessing and waiting in the foyer – to be allowed into affection.

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